When is it the correct time for a man to kiss a woman?
Apparently in the past and now even in my future, this dilemma is still there. I don’t necessarily want a kiss on the first date, however by the 3rd or 4th one, when you (the man) hasn’t moved in for the kill, I begin to wonder:
Are we just going to be friends?
This is the current predicament I am in and one that I have found myself in repeatedly.
Case in point:
#4 (see previous post to understand the numbers), didn’t kiss me for three weeks! And only after I said, “It has been three weeks, 8 dates, and I have met your sister. Are you ever going to kiss me?”
I met a guy on tinder once, name *Fred*. We went on several dates and I didn’t push him to kiss me. We ended up just being friends.
And now we are at Mr. Nashville.
I am driving there this evening after work. We talk on the phone at least twice a day. Texts throughout. He says sweet things and flirts.
But no kissing.
Should I press for this, or just wait it out? What if he ends up being a friend like Fred?
I don’t want to push him if he isn’t ready, but what if there is NO chemistry (because that does happen), and but we have put weeks into this “almost relationship.”
I guess this is just a risk I have to be willing to take.
When is it ok to ask for kiss? Or do you not? Or do you wait it out?
Thoughts would be much appreciated.